Often, people only knew the side of the victim or the 'good person'. For example, a bully always gets the lunch of one of his classmate. When he gets reprimanded, the story of the one being bullied is the only one heard. But how about the story of the bully? What if there's a story behind why he's doing it?
You know a lot of times, these bad people are behind these nasty things because someone had done these to them when they're younger. They are also once a victim of the bad things they're doing now. Of course not all, but some.
Based on my experience and what I've observed, these are some of the side of bad people on why they are doing such :
* They are victims who were traumatize and applied the habit of bullying. (As what I've said earlier)
* They want to have revenge from some people who have hurted them before.
* They were peer pressured by an individual or a group.
* They did this for the better of some. Like those snatchers, they did that for their family, though it's wrong.
* A lot more untold stories....
You see, sometimes we also need to hear what is the side of the bad people. I'm not saying that we should tolerate their acts. What I am imposing is to not judge them easily, to listen to what they have to say, to be open-minded and try to understand their struglles. Of course, they did something bad, they need to learn a lesson. But at least we should try to listen to them first before judging.
Oh so much for my opinions, how about yours? What can you say about these people? Comment below. Thanks!
XOXO,
Trixie
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